Ch-ch-ch-changes…and inspiration

25 06 2008

Surprise! I’m doing a drive-by random post! I wanted to thank everyone that has been so kind to send me thoughts and prayers and well wishes regarding my marriage. My husband is moving out on July 1st; while I haven’t given up on our marriage, I have accepted that this separation is going to happen and I’m actually feeling at peace with it. But, to guarantee that I don’t completely fall apart that first week when he’s gone, I’ve started making plans for a small 4th of July get-together (anyone gonna be in Atlanta around then? E-mail me, you have a standing invitation!).

Part of the plans for this little shindig include getting my patio pulled together. My patio is AWFUL. Extra super awful. I’m being honest. The small garden has gone to seed and I sold the furniture last summer, thinking I’d buy some I liked better… but finances got in the way (you know how that happens!) and instead of creating a nice place to have a light supper, the kids created a small mess of toys and stuff. All of which needs to be crated off to somewhere prior to the 4th of July.

So my drive-by today consists of impromptu inspiration for the small patio. You can be sure I’ll be scouring craigslist like a mad woman this week and next to find patio furniture, and visiting Lowe’s, of course, to replant the garden. These are the photos that will be inspiring my makeover:

Cute Walmart patio set

Isn’t this the cutest patio set from Walmart, and only $138.00 too! It’s perfect for my small patio, comes with the umbrella and it’s wooden so it can withstand the elements since my patio is completely exposed to the elements. Now, because I’m a tightwad, I’ll try to find something similar for less money, but if I can’t, this is a great option.

Speaking of Walmart, if I had just all kinds of extra cash, this is the set I’d pick up:

Walmart sectional $588

Wouldn’t this make a patio truly feel like part of your home? It’s only $588 which is very reasonable, but still way out of my price range.

While I’m daydreaming and talking about out of my price range, how beautiful is this:

It’s the Pottery Barn Palmetto Honey sectional. I LOVE It! But it runs around $3,000 as pictured. It’s funny to me how I’ve become such a Pottery Barn girl as I grow older. And to think, at one time I thought PB was for old ladies! :)

Anyway, back to realistic inspiration for my patio! In addition to furniture for dining, I do want to find a small settee, probably wicker, for just cuddling or reading on. Something like this maybe:

Pottery Barn Palmetto collection again… Isn’t that a cozy little set-up though? I love the cushions and the pillows and I will definitely copy that idea with handmade pillows on my patio.

I’m a little bit at a loss for garden inspiration. My planting plot is fairly small, only about 3′ x 4′, but it’s weird because in the early spring it get hardly any sun, but by mid summer, it’s almost full sun. Any gardening aficionados out there with suggestions on what to plant? I like colorful flowers and they can’t be high maintenance. Otherwise, I’m pretty open…

I guess that’s it for now. “See” ya’ll soon!

xoxo – Shauntelle

P.S. I almost forgot to tell ya’ll – while I was gone, I actually got some press… ironically enough, I was an “expert” for an article on creating a family friendly outdoor space. Go check the article out if you get a chance: Radish Magazine.





An Update…

22 06 2008

Hi ya’ll!

I’ve had a few people e-mail me wondering when I would be updating the blog.  I’ll definitely be back, but right now I’ve been taking some time to myself.  I told you guys that I had been dealing with a family emergency and going back to work.  The truth is, about four months ago, my marriage suddenly fell apart.  I’m still not sure what happened… one day I thought we were this happy couple, you know the ones that could use a little more time together away from work and the kids, but happy.  I guess I was the only one who saw things that way.

I’ve spent the last few months just trying to keep myself together.  I guess I did the thing everyone says not to do… I made my life around my husband and my kids.  So the rug has been pulled out from under me in more ways than I can explain.  Some days are good and others, well, others… it takes everything in me to get up and put a foot forward.  I kept hoping that some miracle would happen and turn things around, and that was one of the reasons I didn’t mention anything on the blog.  But now I guess I’ve faced facts that he’s really leaving and I’m telling ya’ll because I could use all the prayer and good vibes I can get as I try to mend the big hole in my life from him leaving.

To answer the original question:  will I be back?  Yes, I definitely will.  I actually started selling some stuff on craigslist this weekend (including my favorite orange chairs!!!  I’m a sentimental fool, they were special to me because he bought them and now it breaks my heart to see them…) and I also have plans for painting and redecorating my bedroom and some of the downstairs.  You know I have to share that with ya’ll and get your opinions!  Plus there are still great budget decorators out there that I want to share with ya’ll and plans for craigslist Monday.

Besides getting over the hump of him actually moving out this week, I also have to overcome the loss of my beloved iBook.  I think my boss will let me use my work laptop for a bit until I can replace my personal one; fingers crossed, I should be back to posting 3 times a week beginning in July.

In the meanwhile, please keep me and my kids in your thoughts.

xoxo – Shauntelle