An Update…

22 06 2008

Hi ya’ll!

I’ve had a few people e-mail me wondering when I would be updating the blog.  I’ll definitely be back, but right now I’ve been taking some time to myself.  I told you guys that I had been dealing with a family emergency and going back to work.  The truth is, about four months ago, my marriage suddenly fell apart.  I’m still not sure what happened… one day I thought we were this happy couple, you know the ones that could use a little more time together away from work and the kids, but happy.  I guess I was the only one who saw things that way.

I’ve spent the last few months just trying to keep myself together.  I guess I did the thing everyone says not to do… I made my life around my husband and my kids.  So the rug has been pulled out from under me in more ways than I can explain.  Some days are good and others, well, others… it takes everything in me to get up and put a foot forward.  I kept hoping that some miracle would happen and turn things around, and that was one of the reasons I didn’t mention anything on the blog.  But now I guess I’ve faced facts that he’s really leaving and I’m telling ya’ll because I could use all the prayer and good vibes I can get as I try to mend the big hole in my life from him leaving.

To answer the original question:  will I be back?  Yes, I definitely will.  I actually started selling some stuff on craigslist this weekend (including my favorite orange chairs!!!  I’m a sentimental fool, they were special to me because he bought them and now it breaks my heart to see them…) and I also have plans for painting and redecorating my bedroom and some of the downstairs.  You know I have to share that with ya’ll and get your opinions!  Plus there are still great budget decorators out there that I want to share with ya’ll and plans for craigslist Monday.

Besides getting over the hump of him actually moving out this week, I also have to overcome the loss of my beloved iBook.  I think my boss will let me use my work laptop for a bit until I can replace my personal one; fingers crossed, I should be back to posting 3 times a week beginning in July.

In the meanwhile, please keep me and my kids in your thoughts.

xoxo - Shauntelle





Craigslist Monday: I need inspiration!

19 05 2008

Happy Monday my thrifty deal nabbers!

This is the second Craigslist Monday that has come and almost gone without me finding anything that really struck me as a GREAT deal! In fact, I’ve had more luck selling stuff on craigslist this weekend than I’ve had finding anything to share with ya’ll.

I think the problem is I’m not feeling inspired. So I need HELP! I’ve decorated a new apartment for under $500, I’ve shown you what $20 could get, I’ve created a feminine sitting room, and I’ve shown you the interesting stuff you could buy if money were no object. I need more themes. What kind of things are you guys looking for? What cities are ya’ll in? I think I need to mix it up more, show you what you could get in other cities outside of Atlanta… hmm, what about Atlanta versus (blank) city, with a price amount?

I know this is a popular feature- almost as popular as “In the Trenches” - so I want to keep it going. This is where great reader input is useful! If you don’t feel comfortable leaving a comment, send me an e-mail: snhamlett at gmail dot com.

In the meanwhile, I am very excited to tell you that one of our favorite “In the Trenches” guests, Benita of Chez Larrson, has just started her own blog!!! You have to go by and visit her, I know she’ll have all kind of great ideas to inspire you. You can find her at http://www.chezlarsson.typepad.com.

That’s it for now! Send me those theme suggestions and I’ll be back with a fresh Craigslist Monday next week.

xoxo - Shauntelle





Out of Hiding with a Plan!

8 05 2008

Ta-da! I’m back! Did you miss me? I certainly missed you all so much! The world is just not right when I’m not living and breathing design. So I decided today that the only way for me to start to put my world back together is to get back to the things that I love. Which definitely includes this blog and being able to interact with all of you.

So I’m back. Thank you to everyone who sent such sweet notes to let me know you were thinking of me. My personal life is still a bit upside down and there’s a good chance it will be for a while. But there are positives for me to focus on, including a second job interview next week for a position that seems like a really good fit. (So keep putting out good thoughts/prayers/vibey-vibes for me, okay? Interview is next Tuesday at 8:30am eastern time… I bought THE CUTEST SUIT EVER. The kind of suit that says “you have to hire this woman, she’s really got her stuff together!” Not that packaging is everything, but in marketing, it always helps!)

Even though I hadn’t been posting, I’ve been thinking a lot about A Beautiful Abode. You know I’ve wanted to start a magazine version. Originally the plan was to make a downloadable version but after getting more input, I’ve decided that I’m going to go with a monthly webzine. I’m going to launch it in July… that means I really, really, really, really… REALLY need ya’lls input to tell me what kinds of features you’d like to see. I know you like the interviews and peeks into other decorators’ homes… but what else? Tell me, tell me!!! I want the A Beautiful Abode magazine to be your favorite place to turn to when it comes to finding budget decorating inspiration and in order to make that dream come true, I need to know what you want.

The blog will become part of the magazine; I can’t give it up because I’m addicted to the interaction with everyone! :) Between now and the launch of the webzine, I’ll figure out a new posting schedule. Right now, I think I’ll be posting three times a week in the evenings, to prepare myself for going back to working full-time during the day… I feel like that will be a reasonable schedule, but we’ll have to see. I really hope you will bear with me during this transition. Life is funny; just when we feel like we have things down pat and under control, something happens and everything changes… makes you realize how precious every good moment is and how it’s not about control, but just enjoying every moment that you can. That’s my plan with A Beautiful Abode… to focus less on trying to meet a perfect publishing schedule and more on providing posts that we all can enjoy.

I WILL be back tomorrow for Inspiration Friday… until then, hug your loved ones and feel this big KISS coming from Atlanta out to all of you everywhere!

xoxo - Shauntelle





A Quick Note…

29 04 2008

Hi ya’ll! I wanted to pop in and tell you that I’ve been MIA this week because I’m dealing with a family emergency. I will have a new “In the Trenches” interview posted tomorrow, so don’t worry, you won’t miss out on your weekly budget decorating inspiration. But posts might be a little light the next week or so because I’m managing our crisis and also job hunting. Any well wishes you want to send this way are definitely welcomed! :)

See ya tomorrow!

Shauntelle





In the Trenches featuring Kasmira of What I Wore 2day

23 04 2008

Happy Wednesday budget decorators!

It feels like we haven’t had an “In the Trenches” interview in ages, doesn’t it? I’m particulary happy to bring this one to you because it features a woman who has been inspiring me for over a year.

Ever since I started A Beautiful Abode, one of the ideas floating in the back of my head was to do a series of interviews focused on how creative people draw inspiration from their creative passions to assist them in decorating their homes. I think a lot of people are afraid to tackle decorating their homes because they don’t trust their own judgement, and I believe that learning how to draw inspiration from areas that you feel confident in (like fashion or gardening or photography, for instance) is one way to overcome that obstacle. Our feature for today, Kasmira, was first on my dream list of potential candidates to start this series.

Kasmira owns the blog What I Wore 2day which gives you a glimpse into her daily work wardrobe. While I have visited a number of other fashion blogs, I continually return to Kasmira’s blog again and again, inspired by her creative use of texture, color, and layering. I couldn’t help but wonder if her home would reflect this same aesthetic… Read on, to find out the answer to that question.

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I have been an avid reader of your blog, What I Wore 2day, for the past year or so. It’s so fascinating to me that there’s this whole area of blogging devoted to documenting your daily clothing choices. How did you get involved with this community and what led you to start your blog?

I started What I Wore Today (the number “2″ is only in the URL because whatiworetoday was already taken at blogspot), after searching for blogs like it. I wanted to see what other people wore every day. The only blog I found was Allie’s What’s My Wardrobe Today. I started my blog with the hopes that I’d get other people to contribute to it, too. Eventually, I began to find other sites like mine, as well as communities like Shoutfit and Flickr’s Wardrobe Remix. After seeing that the community niche was taken, I repurposed my blog to feature only myself (with occasional guests).

After admiring your wardrobe for so long, I wasn’t surprised to find myself completely enamored with photos of your home on flickr. How would you describe your design style in your home? Do you feel that this style also reflects your wardrobe style?

I’d call my home’s style lush exotic. I love the styles of Morocco, Thailand, India, and Indonesia. I’ve got elements from other non-Western cultures as well, like Japanese and Korean, but I limited them because I find the designs are relatively sparse and “cold.”

I wouldn’t call my wardrobe style exotic, although I do have a few souvenir clothing items. You could call it “lush,” though. I love to combine color, texture, patterns, and layers to create a result that is almost overwhelming.

One of the reasons that I keep coming back to peek into your daily wardrobe is that I admire your creative use of color and texture. Most of us (and this definitely includes me), are too scared to play with color, pattern, or texture like that in our clothes or our homes. Will you share with us what inspires you and how you learned to develop an eye for this? Do you have any tips for how we can also develop this skill further in our own wardrobes and homes?

I’ve learned a lot from books, magazines, and, surprisingly, retail. The best, free inspiration is to window shop clothing and home stores. Even some restaurants have amazing interiors. A day of window shopping usually leaves me inspired to go home and try a new outfit or grouping of home accessories.

Another thing that I admire is how you restyle items in your wardrobe by dyeing, embellishing, and/or altering them. Is this DIY attitude also reflected in your home? And if so, will you share with us a few of your favorite projects?

When it comes to DIY, I have a lot of ideas, but not so much skill! My creations aren’t perfect, but I consider them a learning experience. I made roman shades for our dining room by carefully following the directions in a book (http://cinticapecod.blogspot.com/2005/02/mission-roman-shades-completed.html). I got a little crazy when I made a bedskirt out of a sari with no directions at all (http://cinticapecod.blogspot.com/2005/03/sari-bedding.html). And then there is a whole list of projects in my head that I have yet to start!

I know one fear that has held me back in the past with both decorating my home and pulling together my wardrobe is a fear of getting it wrong. Does this fear ever strike you and if so, how do you over come it?

One of the reason I have such a long list of unstarted home projects is fear that I’ll screw it up. We’ve all had our failures. I’ve thrown out entire batches of cookie dough and tossed messed up bird houses in the trash. I find the best way to conquer uncertainty is to ask myself “what’s the worst that could happen.” This is even more fun with a partner because you soon find yourselves imagining ridiculous scenarios, laughing, and wondering what it was that scared you in the first place! With home projects, the worst that could usually happen is that you lose money - either through waste or paying someone to fix your mistakes. If you’re prepared to face the worst, you’ll find your fear is minimized.

With clothing choices, really, what is the worst that could happen? Someone laughs at you? You’re counseled by Human Resources? Some random teenagers ask if you’re a hooker? (Yes, that happened to me!) And if the worst does happen, it is only one day of your life. There are plenty yet to come in which you make a safe outfit choice. Live a little!

I’ve found that as I started to understand my personal clothing style better, I’ve also had an easier time developing my decorating style. Is this something that you’ve experienced as well? And if so, do you have any suggestions for how a person can use their favorite wardrobe pieces as a jumping off point for decorating their homes?

Decorating, and gardening, helped me develop my creative and artistic talents. Eventually, that artistic bent leaked into my wardrobe as well. I consider my house, garden, and body as canvases for personal expression.

Wardrobes and home decorating can have a lot in common, both good and bad. If you love to wear purple, you’d probably love a purple wall! And if you tend to collect piles of junk on the kitchen counters, you’ve probably got unused and unwanted items in your closet as well.

I’d advise people to consider what it is they love about a favorite item in their closet and then think about how they could bring that element into their decorating. For instance, perhaps you simply adore your red, cashmere sweater. What is it that speaks to you? The color? The texture? The fact that your husband gave it to you? Once you identify that element, you can bring it into your space as well.

As you know, A Beautiful Abode is really dedicated to providing inspirations and tips for creating a beautiful home on a tight budget… we’d love if you would share with us your top three tips for creating a pull together look on a budget with examples of how these ideas work for both your wardrobe and your home.

1. Know what colors you love! It’s easy and inexpensive to get a coordinated look if you are consistent about the color of the items you buy.

2. Accessorize. Accessories are cheap, easily swapped out, and the quickest way to inject a trend into your home or wardrobe.

3. Tell other people about your style. When you’ve got a birthday, anniversary, or gift-giving holiday coming up, people will know what to get you. If you’re not sure what your style is, let them know you’re interested in home decorating or fashion and that you’d love a gift card.

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Go visit Kasmira at her blog to see more of her great outfits!  I promise, if you’re scared of color or layering, you’ll be inspired to be more adventurous.  And if you’d like to see more of her home, go visit her flickr account.  Like always, be sure to leave a comment here so that she’ll know how much we appreciate her for sharing herself and her home with us!

Until next time!

xoxo - Shauntelle





Craigslist Monday: Back with a $50 challenge

21 04 2008

Dum-Dum-Dah-Dum! I’m back!!! Did ya’ll miss me? I missed you guys terribly; I never realized how much blogging adds to my life until I couldn’t blog!!! But I’m back now and I have such an interesting Craigslist Monday lined up for today, I can’t wait to share it with ya’ll.

Right before I lost my internet connectivity, a representative for Kijiji, ebay’s free classified site, contacted me to ask if I ever visited. He saw the mention of Kijiji in Kim’s interview and not so subtly suggested that I consider doing a Kijiji Sunday to go along with my Craigslist Monday.

Now ya’ll know I LOVE craigslist. LOVE. Um, yeah… did I mention I LOVE craigslist? And I’m really loyal to those that I love. So I pretty much intended to blow the whole thought off because who could compete with my beloved craigslist? And wouldn’t it be cheating, sorta, to check out another free ad site?

But then I thought of ya’ll, my beloved readers! I made a promise that I’d provide info about the best budget resources I could find when I started this blog. How could I just avoid a potential bargain hunter’s dream because of my own little love affair? And Kim had totally recommended it… so, I had this bright idea. Today we will have the Atlanta Craigslist - Atlanta Kijiji showdown. I have $50 (pretend) dollars. The goal is to see which list is gonna give me the best finds for my $50 bucks.

Of course I’m gonna start off with my beloved - Atlanta Craigslist. To be honest, on my first two/three/four run-throughs, I was feeling pretty disappointed. Nothing really jumped out at me.

And then, I found this chair for $30.

You know I’m a sucker for the unusual. And anything with a quirky aesthetic. I LOVE this chair! As in, you know I went running around my townhouse trying to find a place to put it. But no - there’s no place where it would work. My loss, someone else’s lucky $30 find… http://atlanta.craigslist.org/fur/650601837.html

That leaves a big $20. Which is plenty to pick up this great retro chrome chair for $15:

Another find that I completely LOVE. Yeah, the black cushions would need to be recovered, but that’s not an expensive concept… it could be a simple as cleaning the cushions and then creating a simple slipcover for them. And do you see the great shape of the chair? So modern, so awesome for some cool, hip lounge. sigh. Another piece that won’t fit into my townhouse. http://atlanta.craigslist.org/fur/649889255.html

I wasn’t going to bother looking for something for $5, except curiousity got the better of me. And lo!, I found this cute little chair!

Can you believe it? Even $5 can help you add cute seating to your place. That’s why you always have to keep a sharp eye out! http://atlanta.craigslist.org/fur/648676215.html

So, $50 bought three great chairs on craigslist. Let’s see what $50 gets us on Atlanta Kijiji.

First things, first - I’m a little annoyed at the get-go because there’s no way to search by price. You can sort with lowest price first, but I love the way craigslist allows me to search a price range. Second, there’s all sorts of stuff mixed in under the furniture section. I’m getting baseball cards and coffee cup selections. Believe it or not, but I’m impatient. The longer it takes for me to find something interesting, the less likely I am to stick around. So far, five minutes into this experience, I haven’t hit a single link. That’s too long for someone like me. If I weren’t in to this experiment for ya’ll, I would be gone. But I’ll persist…

And I will add one thing that I do like. There a thumbnail photos of each item on the main listing. So you don’t get psyched out by a great listing title only to find the actual item looks like a piece of crap something you wouldn’t want. :)

But I still, I’m 4 pages in and 10 minutes along before I find anything worthwhile… this brand new (according to the ad) twin size wooden headboard and footboard.

It’s not my style, but if it’s solid wood, I think it’s a pretty good deal for $30. http://atlanta.kijiji.com/c-For-sale-Furniture-decor-BRAND-NEW-Antique-Stained-Twin-Headboard-and-Footboard-W0QQAdIdZ29140337

I’ve already passed everything that costs less than $30 without seeing anything of interest, so I figure I’d keep looking to see if there was a better option if I decided to spend the whole $50 on just one thing.

And I ran across this china cabinet for $40.

Once again, not my style, I’m definitely NOT in love with it. But I can see it has potential - a little paint, and it could be a piece of real beauty. And I have to admit that you aren’t gonna find anything that size for that price too often. http://atlanta.kijiji.com/c-For-sale-Furniture-decor-Hutch-W0QQAdIdZ40690586

So there’s our little experiment.  Three cute chairs for $50 or one china cabinet for $40.  No contest in my mind, what about ya’ll?  Sorry Kijiji, there’s just no comparison, at least in the Atlanta market.  But, it is another option to visit when all else fails.  And, to give them their due, they are in their infancy, as far as I know.  So I’ll keep you on the radar Kijiji, but you won’t get your own day on this blog anytime soon.

Don’t forget to come back tomorrow to find out the lucky giveaway winner (if you haven’t entered yet, you still have a few hours, so go do it!) and definitely meet me back here on Wednesday for another great “In the Trenches” interview, this time with fashion blogger Kasmira.

Until later,

xoxo - Shauntelle





Technical Difficulties…

15 04 2008

Hey ya’ll!

Is it a full moon this week? With the kind of issues I’m having so far, it feels like it! I wanted you to know I’m having internet connection issues so it’s difficult to post unless I do it from my cell phone and that’s not easy or fun! :(

It’s supposed to be fixed by Friday… To be safe, I’ll be back on Monday!

There’s one plus to this though! I’m extending the giveaway deadline to next Tuesday. I’ll even make it easier to enter… Just leave a comment on the Carrie and Danielle interview post answering the question “what inspires me?” and you’re entered.

See ya next week!

Xoxo - Shauntelle





Craigslist Monday: Out of the ordinary…

7 04 2008

Hello Bargain Hunters!

How are ya’ll doing today? Pollen almost cancelled Craigslist Monday! I don’t know about where ya’ll are, but here in Atlanta, early spring means everything outside is coated in yellow. We thought we were gonna be lucky and miss the pollen season because of all the recent rain and cold snaps, but obviously we were wrong since yesterday I noticed our truck changing colors. The crazy sinus headache I’ve had all day and my poor children’s red eyes today have confirmed that we are definitely in hay fever season! Yuck!

Anyway, I finally got my headache under control. Just in time too– cause while I was looking around for deals to feature in this post, I caught a great deal myself…

See that pair of capiz shell lamps? Those will be mine in one short hour… all for $20! I’ve been pricing them everywhere and the least expensive version I’ve found retail was at World Market for $40 each. Today was my lucky day, since these ARE the World Market lamps and I’m getting both for less than half the price of ONE! YAY me… makes up for the stupid sinus headache! : )

Great deals like that make me love craigslist… but I also love craigslist because of the chance to find unusual items at great prices too. And that’s the focus for today, unusual items that help a home feel “special” and unique.

Like this coffee table:

It’s made from a spinning gear! How extra cool is that? The listing says it needs refinishing, but for a mere $50, you’d definitely be picking up an amazing piece that could really make a room. http://atlanta.craigslist.org/fur/633906247.html

Or what about this antique Baby Grand Piano for $100?

Now, from the very amusing, but truthful story in the listing, this baby grand from 1903 is more for looks than use… but it’s from 1903! That’s over a hundred years old. For only $100. How often do you run across an opportunity like that? What would be even more awesome is if you could have it restored, but even if you can’t, talk about a conversation starter… http://atlanta.craigslist.org/fur/633400694.html

Any of you who have been reading this blog for a while (all 3 months of it’s life!) won’t be surprised that I’m in love with the following dining table and chairs for $175:

It just looks so fun to me, especially with those chairs. Admittedly, I’d only buy it if they were willing to negotiate on the price… but if they’d let it go for $150, and I had space, it would probably find a home with me. http://atlanta.craigslist.org/fur/633323521.html

My very favorite thing though, has to be this oh so glamourous and romantic chandelier for $75:

The listing says it’s in great condition and has all of it’s prisms. And look at this closeup of the detailing.

LOVE it! http://atlanta.craigslist.org/fur/633218375.html

It’s almost time for me to pick up my new lamps, so that’s all the craigslist goodies for today. Check back tomorrow to see how I solved my dark hole problem in the living room. And, don’t forget that “In the Trenches” will be back on Wednesday… our featured decorator is none other than Kim of Desire to Inspire. You’re gonna LOVE her home!





Tackle It Tuesday: A quick tour

1 04 2008

I’ve got about 5 minutes to post before I have to leave to go to my oldest son’s orchestra concert, so I’m only posting a quick tour… but finally, as promised, Ian and Catie’s redecorated room! Notes will be added later.

The $20 dresser and painted stripes:

Dresser and walls

Ian’s desk and the floating bookcase:

ian desk
Ian’s corner and my fancy curtains and fabric blinds:

ian’s corner
Catie’s corner and her share of wonderful curtainy goodness:

catie’s corner

Organized closets (Catie, then Ian):

catie closet

ian’s closet

So that’s my Tackle it Tuesday, short version. Be sure to go check everyone else’s out:

Tackle It Tuesday Meme





Craigslist Monday: Misc. interesting stuff…

3 03 2008

Happy Monday, budget shoppers!

How are ya’ll doing? Did you have a good weekend? I am feeling positively excited today because, after three weeks, I am FINALLY feeling like I’ve kicked the flu! Still a little bit of coughing but my energy level is almost back to normal and i just FEEL better.

I am also very excited about my first giveaway… I was at Marshall’s over the weekend picking up some neat stuff for the goodie bag! If you want a chance to win, pop over to my post about my most recent craigslist find here and add a comment with your suggestions. To be fair, I’m going to put everyone’s name on slips of paper and have my youngest pick a name from the hat. The drawing will be on this Saturday (March 8th). Don’t be shy! Go enter!

Craigslist today was slim pickings really. Nothing caught my eye as an exceptional deal, but a few things caught my eye as just interesting stuff. So that’s what you’re getting today… an assortment of interesting stuff.

Something I’d buy if they’d negotiate on the price:

$30 leather camel

Supposedly this is a designer real leather camel. I think it looks cool, but I wouldn’t spend $30 for it. ‘Cause I’m cheap like that. http://atlanta.craigslist.org/fur/593648891.html

If only I needed another sofa…

1970’s sofa for $75
I’d totally pick up this 1970’s velvet striped sofa for $75.00. I find the pattern and colors completely groovy, but it would be great slipcovered too. http://atlanta.craigslist.org/fur/593878398.html

If I weren’t shopping craigslist because I’m on a budget….

Crate and Barrel Steele sofa for $1200

I might consider paying $1200 for this Crate and Barrel “Steele” sofa. Maybe… http://atlanta.craigslist.org/fur/593952468.html

or

George Meachen Piano for $2500

Isn’t this a beautiful piano? I would definitely invest $2500 in this George Meachen piano, if I had the space (and the cash). http://atlanta.craigslist.org/fur/593293429.html

Hope ya’ll have a wonderful day! And be sure to come back on Wednesday to meet our feature designer whose gorgeous home was being filmed as she answered our interview questions!